Is Temperance a yes or a no?

The answer

Yes, provided you do not rush the blending.

What argues for it

It can be done in proportion. This does not have to be all or nothing, and that is what makes it possible.

Reversed

A moderate version of this is available even if the whole is not.

When it moves

A gradual middle stretch, measured in a slow, continuous pour rather than a single moment.

What to do about it

Blend slowly. Whatever two things you are trying to reconcile — habits, people, parts of yourself — need a patient, continuous pour rather than a single dramatic gesture.

Reversed

Pull back from whichever extreme you have drifted toward and find the middle again before continuing. The current pace or proportion is not sustainable as it stands.