The Library The Hanged Man In love
Major Arcana
The Hanged Man in love and relationships
- suspension
- sacrifice
- new perspective
- surrender
- waiting
In a love reading
Stop steering this one for a while. Whatever you are waiting on — an answer, a return, a change of heart — will not arrive faster for your pushing, and the view from here, uncomfortable as it is, is teaching you something about the relationship that motion was hiding.
Reversed
You have come down off the cross you built for yourself. The waiting is over, by choice or by exhaustion, and it is time to act on what the pause showed you rather than keep performing patience nobody asked for.
As you, in the relationship
You are waiting, deliberately, and not acting. There is discipline in that.
Reversed
You are stalling and calling it patience.
What you want and dread at once
You hope the pause gives you something.
Reversed
You are afraid nothing is going to move, ever.