Is Three of Swords a yes or a no?

The answer

No — the hurt named here is real, and no reframing changes the fact that something has actually broken.

What argues for it

The worst of the hurt is already spent. This cannot cost you that twice.

Reversed

You have survived the version of this that frightened you.

When it moves

It has already happened, or it is happening right now. This card rarely describes something still on its way.

What to do about it

Let it hurt. Naming the exact wound, out loud if you can, is what starts it closing.

Reversed

Check whether the wound is actually healing or just quiet. Quiet and healed are not the same condition.